How Many Ways Can You Say Goodbye? by Refiloe Maohloli

Illustrated by Anja Stoeckigt

How Many Ways Can You Say Goodbye? by Refiloe Moahloli is a beautifully gentle picture book that helps children navigate the emotions that come with change, separation, and loss.

Through simple, reassuring language and expressive illustrations, this story shows that goodbye can look and feel different for everyone — sometimes it’s sad, sometimes confusing, and sometimes filled with love and memories that stay close to the heart. The book encourages children to acknowledge their feelings and reassures them that it’s okay to take time to understand and heal.

Ideal for families, classrooms, and caregivers, this story opens the door to meaningful conversations about emotions, transitions, and love that continues beyond goodbye. A comforting, thoughtful read for young children experiencing big feelings.